gift is a continuation character
gift is the social networking link
gift-giving is a common social phenomenon, it exists in all periods and in all areas of human society. An ideal gift for the presenters and recipients, have expressed a particular desire, sent a special message. Gift is a declaration, which declared the relationship between you and the recipient: ordinary friend, friendly relative, grateful for the boss or an enthusiastic admirer of the subordinate. It also reflects your hope in the minds of others in establishing what kind of image, one can appreciate someone else's man, a sexy and elegant man, or who knows how to smile to terminate the relationship. Most importantly, the recipient is also a declaration: his loyalty has been recognized by you, his perseverance was commendable, his leadership critical to the Department, his health is worrying, he makes doing business a pleasure. In short, he deserves thanks.
all the giving and receiving of gifts, no matter what gift-giving is voluntary, and each gift is subject to selection can only be sent out. Gift is an extension of your personality, the other to measure your interests, even including the wisdom and skill. What to send, how to send it to make an important and lasting impression. Same is true of other how to accept. Whether we admit it or not, gift makes sense for both sides, it plays an important role in our lives. Our desire for gifts, that is, to agree, love, understanding and love, the longing. Giving and receiving gifts of our behavior involves many aspects of life. Through the gifts we can inspire others. Educate others, control, access can be made to compensate, you can display the expression of knowledge and accomplishment, kindness and love, or the impact of a.
in short, gift-giving has become every one of us live in the world. Indispensable forms of social integration.
gift of origin
tribute to the defeat of the reciprocity
gifts as a special social phenomenon, it has a very long history. People give gifts to each other, it is indispensable to human life communicative content.
gift is created and developed together with other ceremonial activities. As we know, originated from the ancient ritual activities. At sacrifice, in addition to the standard actions, attitude of reverence to God in reverence and fear of the outside, will also own the most valuable, can show respect to God (the sacrifice) dedicated to the gods. Perhaps since then, in the meaning of the gift, began with the composition of substances and represents. That can appear in the form.
about the origin of gifts, others say it originally comes from the ancient of war due to the tribal merger "tribute", which is sent regularly to the Conqueror of conquerors to food, slaves, and conquered the obedience and begged for asylum. Gifts less than or at in the history books don't thoughtful accounts of war. As the spring and Autumn period, for failing to send a car to King of Chu thatch, led to war in Central States aggressively cutting Union Chu. It was also felt that, originally a commercial quality a bit, the original "reciprocity" is essentially the way to gift giving and rewards to exchange products.
ancient gifts custom
sword given heroic beauty of Yi
from the origins of the gift forms, we can see that is usually expressed in the form of gifts, its scope is very large. In ancient, gift can is coins class of gold and silver,, spring, and records, history and ancient in the, often Emperor gave and Princes or hero to "daughter", and "million gold" of records also can is tool, and weapons, designed devices, "sword gift hero" more is China of ages story; also can is horse, special role or special meaning of animal, three kingdoms in the Guan Yu seat Xia of "red rabbit horse", and Liu Bei riding took of "of Lu", not on respectively courtesy of Cao Cao. Liu Biao gift yet?
as for the clothes, jewelry, food and other more mundane, fields and houses. Most peculiar is the ancient, who was sent as a gift, all around the world. Ancient Chinese beauty Xi Shi was the first fan as a gift offer of fuchai, diao Chan why is dedicated to Dong Zhuo Wang Yunlian ring gauges in the gifts? Slave society of any country, such as ancient Greece Sparta, Slaveholders to free slaves one another is very normal thing.
after thousands of years of development of human society. After entering the modern society, as awareness continues to increase, "gifts" which is a unique social phenomenon has been further developed, gradually abandon some violations preferred moral and unhealthy concept of personal will, as a special form of social art, has its own connotations, its many methods.
gift of motivation
aspiration is to give gifts of joy
"gifts" of this practice in each period are widespread all over the world, many customs in the country is the most common type, is also one of the most intimate and pleasurable one. Driven by a variety of motives, gifts have become established or improved relationships and gain some interest, the advancement of someone, but is rarely a spontaneous sense of charity, thus explained by the generous gift-giving is not enough.
a man give a woman pick up a unusual gift, this is in order to show their loyalty to parents gave the boy some femininity gifts, perhaps in order to satisfy his own lust ... ...
in short, the giving of gifts to people's thoughts and feelings often are closely related. But there is one thing, gifts sent to others is the real objective should be happy, everyone thinks of devoted love and hope that their love was received and understood. Regardless of the gift we sent, its real meaning is expressed by the gift of love. Truly spontaneous gift, make an unexpected gift, not of any condition of the gift is from the heart, is the best gift.
gifts and values
money ≠ gift
from the heart gift is the best gift, gift's value cannot be measured by its price, the key to the meaning of gift-giving. "Sent from afar, feather, light weight", this is the most accurate understanding of our ancient people the gift. Modern Opera in the white-haired girl tied Yang bailao's red hair band, price is not worth mentioning, but it contains the unit tear-jerking, rewarding.
diamond is luxurious, red string may not be comparable. Therefore, good gift is not in itself a luxurious and expensive, the key is that it contains the presenter's soulful, they can touch each other's hearts.
in local of Park, and road next or school planting a tree hanging has you friends name brand of tree; to someone of name to local library, and school gift a this precious of book; for someone wrote a first poems, and for a tunes or series a story; please home of elders talk about they childhood, and they on himself parents of memories or other almost forget of family fun, put they recorded down to family other members; new year Qian to other sent calendar Shi, Marked on the calendar by family members and a friend's birthday, anniversary, and other special events ... ...
all this, who can not be the most valuable gift?