Chinese pay attention to courtesy light of friendship
gift of friendship
gifts should take into account specific circumstances and occasions. When coming to the private dinner, should be the hostess a small gift, such as flowers, fruits, native. With children, toys and candy. Invited to the wedding, except art decorations, but also presented bouquets and practical items, new year, Christmas, General can send Calendar, wine, tea, candy, cigarettes and so on.
grasp the gift of time and method of
gifts should be presented in person. But sometimes the wedding can also be sent in advance. Ceremony celebrating the holiday, giving Bar Mitzvah may send delivery or mailing. With their gift gift card, can also be hand-written message, installed in the envelope of size, indicate on the envelope the recipient name, affixed to the top of gift wrapping paper. Under normal circumstances, thus only one gift to a group of people is not appropriate. Because the recipient would have the feeling of taking bribes and being fooled, and no donor who has neglected and unimportant.
to the people close to the gifts should not be conducted in public, to avoid the close relationship to the public that you are feeling supported by material things. Only light special gift of friendship, special gift of emotion, it would only be appropriate in front of House. Because the public has become your witness of sincere friendship. A special souvenir.
friendly, words will not miss the
gift to the attention of attitudes, actions, and words. Calm and friendly, graceful motion and accompanied by polite language, is the donor's Party ready to accept. Thief kind of quietly gifts put under your desk or room corner approach, not only not to the purpose of the gift, or even backfire. In general practice, the gift always when too much humility to say: "this gift! This gift! "Only a little something" or "I'm sorry......" it is best to avoid. Of course, when you give an almost proud to say: "this is a very precious thing! "Is not appropriate. When introduced in the gift, it should be emphasized that are held by the recipient party's goodwill and friendship, rather than on the actual value of the gift, otherwise, it falls into a repeat of righteousness, even so that your partner will have a feeling of accepting bribes.
taking into account Customs Customs
to salute the people and is one of the etiquette norms, for the gift of choice should also conform to this specification. Gift choices for different gifts of objects you want to make a difference. Generally speaking, the effect of the poor, to benefit is better; the rich, to elaborate is better; the lover, lover, lover, with Memorial;; to a friend, with interesting;; to elderly people, with practical;; children with retarded novel;; on visitors to feature is a plus.
gift must to master avoid taboo of principles:
for example, China General has "good into double" of claims, thus General big he wedding of thing, by sent of ceremony, are good double bogey single, but Guangdong people is taboo: "4" this even, because in Guangdong words in the, "4" listening to up on like is "died", is not Geely of. Again good, meaning white with pure, but taboo for the Chinese, because in China, white is the color of grief, and poor color. Similarly, black is also considered unlucky, is the color of the terrible disaster and mourning the loss of color. While the red, was festive and peaceful, a symbol of celebration, widely loved by the people. In addition, our people always pay attention to the elderly to send watches, to husband and wife or lover put pears, quot "sending bells" and "hers", "pear" and "off" harmonics, is ominous. Also, if not for healthy people to send medicines, not to friends of the opposite sex to send personal supplies.